Comments Confession stressful1, Male, 44, USA, Martinsburg, WV 31-1-2008 unfaithful Read more... Number Confessions(1) Comments(4) Send Comment Comments By Other Users lostlamb, Female, 24, Malaysia, Kuala Lumpur 29-4-2008 totally agree with 2958. a great woman has given you 29 of her best years. given you a wonderful home, dealt with your nonsense, hasnt given you the boot despite your affair and in fact still loves you after all the nonsense you put her through. and for what? a rich older woman who just wants you to be her bitch? trust me, she doesnt seem like it now. but mark my words, you will join her husband's club of has-beens. stop being a jerk, stop running from your financial troubles, stop being a whiny baby, pull yourself together and remember that what you do now will set an example for your kids and WILL DETERMINE whether or not they make it good in life, and that includes understanding what love and marriage is about, what sacrifice is about, and what being a man is all about. Dainagirl24, Female, 25, USA, Waycross 30-3-2008 jus get the wealthy g/f 2 payoff ur debts n then b there 4 ur sons,i'd try throwin round idea of a stayin with both women n the same house. i guarantee if they both luv u they'll consider it. 2958, Male, 24, USA, Monroe, OH 20-3-2008 Nothing you do is going to be painless here. You need to honor what you committed yourself to when you married your wife. If you continue to try and look out for number one, your going to bring down everyone involved. Be a man, leave your mistress, be faithful to your wife and sons, whatever happens negatively after that you'll just have to deal with. mentiroso, Male, 31, USA, Redlands 26-2-2008 Can you convince both women to share and get them to a threesome. They may like the idea so you do not have to choose. Look at all the things you can enjoy together instead of what you will lose.