Secret I;am so happy that he is dead heartache, Female, 35, Canada, sudbury The man who beat me raped me for 10 years as a child. he threatened me from jail. i had to move alot. i was in protective custody for a while. I just found out he is DEAD. Thank god i have my life back. I am not lead by fear anymore. I want to back a cake and have a big party. but i cant some members of my family still love him. i have to hide my happiness. I'M HAPPY HE IS DEAD THANK GOODNESS!!! Number Confessions(1) Comments(4) Send Comment Comments By Other Users stilldoll, Female, 21, USA, Chicago 10-5-2009 of course it would be natural to feel relieved, be happy but don't be annoying and over the top. bake a cake if you want just dont say the reason, its normal and healthy to let emotions out and if family members feel insulted and are rude to you how dare they have the audacity to be angry that your happy that someone who has raped, assulted, threatened and hurt you is gone and can never do any of that stuff again. Just don't be over the top annoying, be respectful! MissCharmed, Female, 23, South Africa, Centurion 5-3-2009 I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!!!! uncontrollable, Male, 31, USA, mass 17-1-2009 Do not hide nothing if people can not respect your thoughts and wishes on what happened then they dont deserve your time. The same thing happenes to me but he was Raped in prison and killed there as well. I am glad he is dead and dont let them bother you with there thoughts or words. creative, Male, 44, United Kingdom, Manchester 15-1-2009 Now you are free to go forward. rather than celebrate his death, maybe you can think of a worthwhile thing to do. Donate some money to a good charity, maybe start to help other people who have gone through bad things. maybe even just go for a walk in a beautiful place. start to make the beginnings of your new life free of the nasty things that have held you back. Mark it with a positive move! Go for it and GOOD LUCK! UNLOCK EMAIL ADDRESS OF THIS MEMBER Back To Last Page