Secret Going nowhere TiaTia, Female, 27, Australia, Sydney My secret is that I think I'm a failure. I don't fit in anywhere. I feel like the black sheep in every situation. My life is going nowhere. I keep distancing myself from everybody because I'm slipping into a black hole. I don't even want to be with myself anymore. Number Confessions(1) Comments(4) Send Comment Comments By Other Users kamal, Male, 62, India, kolkata 28-5-2009 Be positive and look forward. Don't be sorry for anything as nobody knows you are the best. MissCharmed, Female, 23, South Africa, Centurion 5-3-2009 I'm with you on this one TiaTia. I've felt like this for years... but it fluctuates. On and off all the time. If you ever wanna talk... mail me anytime SickBoy01, Male, 21, Australia, Perth 22-2-2009 boss was right. I used to be like you. Then, I realized that I was inconfident with myself. I cared about how other people think about me too much. Then, I stop caring how other people think of me. I do what I want to, what I should. I suggest u do the same. Worked for me. But, u have wait at least 1 month.....To get used to the situation. theboss, Male, 66, Zambia, Chipata 13-1-2009 I had a girlfriend like this. What you have to understand is that this is how you see yourself - other people won't see anything bad or abnormal about you. Don't agonise about what YOU'RE like - look outward, appreciate other people, and work out your attitude to them. Forget yourself - it will only cause you agony, because we're all imperfect stupi beings after all. Back To Last Page