Confession I don't know what to do with myself. xseaaanhenry, Male, 22, Canada, New Waterford Lately i have been going through a crisis, My girlfriend cheated on me and she keeps telling me she wants me back. Although she is still with this guy i am still very much in love with her, but she keeps it up and I know i should be done with her for good. But to my confession's 1) I am scaring myself because i want to brutally kill that guy who slept with my girl-friend 2) I am a practising Catholic and i am engaging in Pre-Marital sex. 3) I am 100% sick of my life, and if it wasn't for my family and my best friend who has always been there for me. I would not be here right now. 4) I broke every one of the 10 commandments at least 2 times. Please Help Me Out.... Number Confessions(1) Comments(2) Send Comment Comments By Other Users MissCharmed, Female, 23, South Africa, Centurion 5-3-2009 It's very hard what you're going through and believe me you're not the only one. DEFINITELY NOT!! My opinion is to keep this girl far away from you, she's only bad news. If she left you for another, now wants you back but is STILL with him, she's just plain crazy. If she really wanted you she would've stopped everything and gone back to you. She's probably just missing something you gave her that he now doesn't. She's not worth it, believe me. Ignatius, Male, 29, United Kingdom, London 15-2-2009 Hi, I have been in your situation before, it's tough going through it but it is best to get the girl out your life. Women can be very good at manipulating men and often they test out their power on men in cruel ways. There are plenty of good women out there who will treat you with more respect. Don't beat yourself up with the Catholic guilt. There is always forgiveness waiting for you. All I can say after a few more years experience to you is that rushing into a sexual relationship with a girl can have damaging effects, as you are experiencing. Play it cool and be yourself. That is what girls respect the most, someone who is true to themselves. Good luck. Back To Last Page