Secret how do u... hmmwhatev, Female, 28, USA, nowhere break up with someone that is in the hospital with cancer? my boyfriend of four years was diagnosed with cancer a couple months ago. i want to end it. not because of the cancer bc i will still be here for him through that. i'm just not feeling it anymore. it was going downhill fast before this. he's mean and abusive. even now he still breaks my stuff and calls me names. i know that if i were to break up with him now him, his family, his friends, everyone would think that i'm a heartless bitch...but i'm reaaaaaalllllly unhappy with him....ugh. Number Confessions(1) Comments(1) Send Comment Comments By Other Users shouldbeD, Female, 34, USA, San Diego 15-6-2009 wow, that's a difficult one but one thing sick people don't like is to be pittied, break up with him and tell him exactly why you are doing it. If he's the type that won't listen or if you're a big pussy like me right him a letter, then if you feel obligated eplain it to his mother. No need to explain it to anyone else. Back To Last Page