Secret Marriage jayra74, Male, 46, Canada, Toronto When I was 18 I got married; I didnt want to but I needed to stay in the country. We got married by law and catholic church; we got divorced two years later. Several years later I met a woman who I fell i love with, she is very catholic. The minute I met her I knew I want it to marry her but the catholic faith doesnt not recognize divorce. I never told her I was married by the church.4 years ago we married (law and church) with the help of a priest (who understood my situation) and managed to get a certificate; we have two wonderful children and a good marriage but I am always hunted by the fact that I lied to her and I still do. I never told her the truth about my past...I am very afraid that she could one day find out and my world would come down and crash.... Number Confessions(1) Comments(4) Send Comment Comments By Other Users movboy, Male, 46, USA, norwalk 17-6-2009 You got married the first time out of your need to survive. I am sure you were from a place where going back is not acceptable or safe. God will forgive you and so will your current wife. Good luck! shouldbeD, Female, 44, USA, San Diego 15-6-2009 let it die here... no need at this point. personuk, Male, 42, United Kingdom, LONDON 9-6-2009 dont tell her - take it to the grave theres no need for her to know it will break her heart. artisabang, Female, 32, USA, scottsdale 2-6-2009 you should tell her! This is a good test of faith in you! If she really loves you she will understand. A good wife stands by her man no matter what. Back To Last Page