Love Confession

Falling in love - twice

GirlNextDoor, Female, 25, United Kingdom, .

I have a terrible problem, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we are in a very comfortable relationship, but due to life and stuff we don't get much time together these days, and he has other interests apart from me. Although I love him a lot I have recently found myself falling in love with another man.
This has happened before, but I was always swapping, as in one relationship was dying, so I found someone new. They are both friends, and the guy I am falling for has very strong morals about that kind of thing.
I think about him all the time, I have dreams about him, I even found myself thinking about him while having sex with my boyfriend. And in about 6 months time he will probably be moving away. I know he really really likes me too though, and we spend a lot of time together, so it's hard to keep these feelings from my mind.

I can't end the relationship I'm in, and I don't want to, but I want this other man as well so much! What can I do? I've been considering seducing him, but am prevented by the fear he will confess to my boyfriend afterwards. I am hoping talking about it here will keep it from my mind.

What can I do??? Maybe I can hold out for 6 months, but this has been going on since New Year, and it seems to be getting worse...

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Dainagirl24, Female, 25, USA, Waycross

17-3-2007

if he wouldnt confess to ur b/f i'd have the fling. i love secrets it makes life fun to have something of ur own apart from ur mate. something to fantassize about wen ur not as turned on one nite wen he's want is, u can go back n be turned on by that, knowing ur thinking about his friend sexually while ur b/f believes ur thinking of him. big turn on. it may help u thru those that ur not in the mood but know u need to satisfy him.

Dainagirl24, Female, 25, USA, Waycross

15-3-2007

if u dont do somethin this guy will move with u wishing u had seduced him and u may never another opportunity. i've heard guys say they had strong morals b4 but wen approached they always drop thier morals to get btween the legs of a willing woman. just flirtwith him expose enuff flesh to drive him nuts and touching is a big turn on as well. i love sex soo its my duty to seduce every guy i see. i havent met one guy that wont drop his pants wen hes constantly flirted with n touched. its spring now use urbody n bikini to get this guy. let ur top fall off or talking bout getting a brazilian bikini wax to him anything sexual and watch his pants bugle and tell him u see his pants bugling from that hard on that u cause. be bold and aggressive with him. he will respond. if u want both then tell him u want 2 guys at once maybe u could get them together for a 3some. tell them it can be them or 2 other guys but u want this fantasy. lie and tell u want to get it out of ur system once and for all. i'm not wat i'm talking bout. daina 24/f/ga

katenyc, Female, 29, USA, nyc

3-3-2007

I know how it's to feels to be in between two strong feelings. I think you should stay with the one that really loves you back.......in my case "the one" is my boyfriend for more than 5 years and the other guy it's just a crush A BIG ONE that I'll have to get over it. good luck! THREE DOORS DOWN I'm here without you (my favorite song just for him)

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