Love Confession I married my husband because he was disabled lipsmacker, Female, 44, USA, Minnneapolis I have depression and was fat and thought that no one would ever love me so I married him. I hate myself for it. I fancy this guy I met at a training session, but he's going through a divorce. I'm lonely, and hate myself so much for everything that I do. Oh, and my husband hit me once too, causing bad brusing around my eye and broken blood vessles. Number Confessions(1) Comments(2) Send Comment Comments By Other Users tessy, Female, 44, Canada, edmonton 6-11-2007 PLEASE HEAR ME......it is never ok for anyone to hit you....not even if you have a low self esteem and they are disabled....it doesnt give him the right and he WILL do it again....once that line is crossed it can never be uncrossed. You need to leave and you should definatly not stay with him out of pity for him nor punishment for yourself.....do you think he didnt know your vulnerable? he knew. get away before he he hits you again....i have been there and its all downhill from here Dainagirl24, Female, 37, USA, Waycross 5-11-2007 lipsmacker y would u marry anyone u didnt want to is beyond me,but u must hav seen somethin good in ur disabled husband to marry him. u cant be that bad if u married a disabled guy that tells me u have a good heart anyway. u said u were fat well get off ur ass n excercise n cut back on ur eating n get ur ass in shape sweetheart. its not going to be handed to u, u hav to work on it. u get wat u put into it,so put ur heart in it n I can tell u hav lots of heart. dont worry bout ur husband thats disabled cause i've fooled around with a few disabled guy n they can be creative Back To Last Page