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everything escalated out of control

davies44, Female, 47, USA, charlotte

i don't know what i was thinking. i have felt trapped and have been so unhappy in this new city, and i have been taking out on my husband. he is very busy at work and i have been feeling completely left out. last night, i accused him of cheating (signs are there, but i can't differentiate how valid they are) and he tried to grab my arms. i got out of his grip and hit him in the face. he responded likewise.
i have never felt more awful about anything in my life. i have given up my life to be with this man, and have never been happier with anyone. i don't see how this could have escalated to this point. i refuse to justify our actions. i don't know what to do. i would go to real confession, but there is no catholic church in our area.
if anyone has any advice, i would love to hear from you
thank you so much for taking the time to read this.
god bless.

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Dainagirl24, Female, 39, USA, Waycross 19-1-2008
my advice to u is that u dont jump ur gun in accusing him,plus theres no need 4 jealousy in a relationship at all. i c it like this,if the other wants 2 cheat they will no matter wat u do,so u jus need 2 b kool n get adjust 2 this new city n dont stress out which i imagine would b easy being new 2 a place. as far as hittin him,u put urself in a bad position n him reacting the same way is normal n the heat of it all. good luck

giftlove77, Female, 38, USA, new york 29-12-2007
HELLO My name is miss gift i saw your profile today and at fund you worthy to be mine as some one whom i can lay on his arms as long as love is concern, caring and teassing you all the nightlong and ,l will also like to know you the more,and l want you to send an email to my email address so l can give you my picture for you to know whom l am. Here is my email address( I believe we can move from here! I am waiting for your mail to my email address above. miss gift (Remeber the distance or colour does not matter but love matters alot in life)

sausageking, Male, 57, USA, Irvine 16-11-2007
I just want to's OK. We all have these things happen...many of us. Things get out of control, we do dumb things. They're not defining moments. It's what we do moving forward. You can't take back what happened, but you can make the best of what's in front of you. You're fine. Your intelligence and attitude about your actions are clearly remorseful and regretful. You are human and worthy of a 2nd, 3rd, 4th chance. Hang in there.

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